Couple Kate Bolick’s “Spinster: Making a Life of One’s Own” with Meghan Daum’s “Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed: Sixteen Writers on Their Decision Not To Have Kids” and you’ve got some great true adult summer reading
Jessica Gross | Longreads | April 2015 | 19 minutes (4,797 words)
In 2011, Kate Bolick charted the sea change in our cultural attitudes toward marriage in her Atlantic piece, “All the Single Ladies.” Interweaving personal experience—she was 39 and single at the time—with reporting, Bolick posited that we are marrying later or not at all, with many women exercising their ability to have children without partners or, again, not at all.
The piece generated a huge response. In Bolick’s new book, Spinster: Making a Life of One’s Own, she approaches single adulthood from a slightly different angle. The book is part memoir: Bolick describes breaking away from a serious, cohabitating relationship in her late twenties, exploring her ambivalence about partnership, and wholly reconsidering her view of marriage. Along the way, she presents the stories of her five “awakeners,” the historical single women who shaped her…
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